Lately, my O has been shy. I don’t know why, but it takes me a while to get there. My O is reluctant to show her face. This concerns my husband. He is sad because he likes to see my O, but she is just not coming out of hiding.
I used to O everytime we had relations, but lately, she either doesn’t show up for the party, or arrives fashionably late. I don’t understand!! We used to be on such great terms, we’d see each other often, revel in the afterglow, but now, she’s become like a shy little mouse. Pokes her head out, looks around, then retreats.
The husband and I have decided that maybe we need some more foreplay. And some new positions. Although, I think the biggest hurdle, will be me letting go of all my thoughts and anxiety of my shy O.
Wish me luck.
Good luck. I have that problem sometimes. Doing a few practice runs on my own sometimes helps out. 🙂 Is the situation improving for you? Are you able to O by yourself?June 1, 2010 11:11 AMHousewife said…
Hi Steph! I’m so excited that you decided to comment!
Well, I can O on my own, which is always great :), but there is nothing that can replace the feeling of ‘getting there’ with someone else, you know what I mean? We’ve definitely had more foreplay, and that’s helped out A LOT. You know the kind of foreplay where you’re just begging, pleading, and demanding for some action.. yeah.June 4, 2010 12:22 PM
B’s Wife said…
Hi Housewife. Are you talking about having a hard time orgasming during actual intercourse because i think that’s pretty common? I have to provide some additional stimulation to my clit to orgasm during actual intercourse. If you can usually orgasm easily from intercourse alone, enlighten us! I want to know how you do it!June 7, 2010 11:05 AM
Hi Housewife. Are you talking about having a hard time orgasming during intercourse, because I think that’s pretty common? I usually have to provide some additional stimulation to my clit to finish. If you can usually orgasm during intercourse alone, please enlighten us! I want to know how you do it!June 7, 2010 11:25 AM
B’s Wife said…
Hi B’s Wife!
I’m definitely not an easy orgasm-er. But, for me, being on top always does the trick. I think it’s because my husband’s pubic bone hits right up against my clit. It is by far my favorite position. Another favorite is when he’s sitting up, maybe on the couch or something, and we’re facing each other. And you have your feet flat on the cushion, almost like you’re squatting on him, haha.
And none of the bouncing up and down on his member for me. I have to have deep and constant to get where I need to go. And don’t forget the foreplay!!
But there is something that’s really hot, when he reaches down and helps me out too.June 7, 2010 11:29 AM
Any update on your elusive O? That happens to me occasionally, too.July 13, 2010 7:44 PM